When a loved one starts having trouble with their memory, it can be difficult and upsetting. Small memory lapses are a normal part of aging. But when forgetfulness starts impacting daily life, it may be a sign of Alzheimer’s disease or another type of dementia.
The good news is that there are many ways we can nurture happiness in our elderly loved ones, even in the face of memory loss. With patience, understanding, and proactive support strategies, we can help them feel safe, valued, and content.
Understanding Memory Loss
Memory loss affects different people in different ways. For some, it may be occasional minor forgetfulness or trouble finding the right words. For others, it may mean forgetting recent events or people’s names, getting lost easily, or an inability to follow instructions.
When memory starts noticeably declining, it often indicates an underlying issue like:
- Alzheimer’s disease – A progressive disorder that destroys memory and thinking skills over time. It’s the most common cause of dementia.
- Vascular dementia – Decline in thinking skills caused by conditions that block or reduce blood flow to the brain.
- Lewy body dementia – A progressive dementia with symptoms like memory loss, confusion, poor judgment, and visual hallucinations.
- Frontotemporal dementia – Damage to the brain’s frontal and temporal lobes causing personality and behavior changes. Memory loss occurs later.
No two cases of dementia are exactly alike. The specific symptoms and progression vary quite a bit from one person to another.
Supporting Happiness with Memory Loss
Even when dementia robs a person of their memories and independence, happiness is still possible with the right support. As memory declines, focus on nurturing joy, comfort, and quality of life.
Encouraging Joy
Laughter, humor, and playfulness go a long way towards lightening the spirit. Look for activities that tap into your loved one’s sense of fun and joviality. This stimulates production of feel-good hormones like dopamine and serotonin to boost their mood.
Some ways to encourage joy include:
- Watching funny movies or TV shows
- Telling jokes and funny stories
- Being silly – making funny noises or faces
- Singing favorite songs from their youth
- Dancing to beloved music
- Looking at comedy books or magazines
- Playing simple, fun board games or card games
- Engaging in easy arts, crafts or cooking projects
Inject laughter and smiles into ordinary moments. With creativity and sensitivity, you can find many opportunities for harmless fun even when cognition is declining.
Promoting Comfort
To nurture happiness, focus on keeping your loved one as comfortable and content as possible day-to-day. This means helping them feel:
- Safe and secure – Minimize confusing or chaotic situations that can cause anxiety. Maintain familiar routines.
- Calm and relaxed – Notice signs of distress like pacing or irritation. Redirect their attention or shift environments to help them feel peaceful again.
- Connected to loved ones – Spend quality time together. Hold hands, make eye contact, reminisce about shared memories. Though the details may be forgotten, feelings often remain.
- Cared for – Attend diligently to needs like pain relief, proper nutrition and exercise. Small gestures like a hand massage or playing their favorite music show you care.
- Respected and valued – Avoid talking down to them or treating them like a child. Respect their dignity and individuality, regardless of cognitive skills.
- Purposeful and proud – Encourage them to participate in daily activities matching their abilities. Simple chores or duties nurture self-esteem and purpose.
Dementia or memory loss doesn’t preclude happiness. Focus on meeting needs, minimizing distress, and treasuring each moment together. Prioritize comfort and contentment as cognition fades.
Engaging the Senses
Another avenue for nurturing happiness is engaging the five senses – sight, hearing, taste, touch and smell. Dementia often gradually impairs memory and reasoning ability. But pathways connected to the senses and emotions are more resilient.
Tap into these pathways to help your loved one connect to present joy, rather than relying on declining memory. Some sensory stimulation activities include:
- Looking at photo books, nature videos, or artwork
- Listening to favorite music, audio books, or natural sounds
- Tasting sweet, salty, sour or bitter flavors
- Touching tactile objects like stress balls, stuffed animals, or textured blankets
- Smelling fresh flowers, aromatic foods, essential oils or scented lotions
When planning activities, consider your loved one’s personality, background, and personal preferences to make them as meaningful as possible. Observe their reactions to guide your approach.
Creating a Supportive Environment
As memory loss progresses to later stages, nurturing happiness focuses largely on creating a safe, familiar, supportive environment. Essential elements include:
Consistent Caregiving
Around-the-clock caregiving provides stability and supervision to compensate for declining mental faculties. Our professional caregivers can supply:
- Medication management – Ensuring proper administration of doctor-prescribed medications.
- Personal care – Assisting with activities of daily living like bathing, grooming, oral care and toileting.
- Health monitoring – Checking vital signs, watching for signs of pain/distress. Reporting concerns to medical professionals as needed.
- Meal planning and preparation – Providing nutritious, appealing meals tailored to medical conditions and preferences.
- Light housekeeping – Keeping living spaces clean, sanitized and clutter-free for safety and comfort.
- Transportation – Safely transporting to medical appointments, social engagements, or sightseeing excursions.
With professional support at Westminster Point Pleasant handling daily needs and health concerns, loved ones can focus simply on enjoying time together.
Engaging Activities
Dementia limits attention span and ability to initiate activities independently. Caregivers gently encourage participation in short, pleasantly stimulating activities throughout the day.
Some engaging group activities that nurture happiness include:
- Social hours – Playing trivia or bingo, working on puzzles, or having a singalong.
- Arts and crafts – Simple projects like flower arranging or painting ceramic figurines.
- Exercise – Stretching, walking, chair yoga tailored to individual ability.
- Outings – Going to parks, museums, farmers markets or festivals.
One-on-one activities might include looking through memory boxes filled with personal mementos, listening to music from their era, delivering hand massages, or chatting about fond memories from the past.
Specialized Memory Care
Eventually, dedicated memory care often becomes necessary to nurture happiness. Our assisted living community and nursing home in Bradenton, FL offer specialized programming, resources and environments designed for those with Alzheimer’s disease and dementia.
Benefits include:
- Secure environment – Wandering risks are reduced via security systems, monitored exits, enclosed outdoor areas.
- Specialized training – Caregivers are trained in dementia and memory care best practices to enhance quality of life.
- Engaging activities – Stimulating physical, social and cognitive activities tap into remaining abilities.
- Community support – Support groups and counseling help families adjust and learn coping strategies.
In the later stages of memory decline, the safety, support and community of specialized memory care helps sustain comfort and joy.
Westminster Point Pleasant: Memory Care in Bradenton, FL
Located in Bradenton, FL, Westminster Point Pleasant offers specialized memory care assisted living with all the amenities necessary to nurture happiness during memory loss.
Our memory support team provides 24/7 support in a secure, yet homelike environment. Specially trained staff incorporates research-based IDEAL programming to engage residents’ abilities and nurture quality of life.
Residents enjoy delicious meals, social activities, help with daily living, medication management, laundry and housekeeping services. Westminster Point Pleasant’s personalized support allows families to enjoy time together, rather than stress about providing care.
To learn more about assisted living options for memory care needs in the Bradenton area, reach out to Westminster Point Pleasant today. Our dedicated team can help evaluate your particular situation and recommend solutions to keep your loved one healthy, safe and happy.